Stories
Stories are a powerful tool for communication, support, and building community.
Our story collection includes links to first hand accounts, digital stories, articles, comics, zines, anthologies and more. Click on the coloured tags to view by topic.
“Our stories are important. Our stories are sacred...and my story is sacred. Being able to connect with other queer people who have experienced cancer, it makes it feel like the experience is less isolating. ”
Medical bias and missing the signs
As a young woman, Jennifer Trefzger was diagnosed with stage 4 colorectal cancer. Her diagnosis was a result of a surprise finding through routine bloodwork as part of her gender-affirming care.
Doing cancer, queerly!
Mel Erwin has stage 4 lung cancer. Her cancer co-pilot is her fiancee, Sarah. Together 8 years, & coming out later in life, Mel shares what it’s like for her living queerly in cancerland.
Love, death, & visibility
The documentary tells the story of Kim Acquaviva & her wife, Kathy Brandt, who died of cancer in 2019 at the age of fifty-four.
Navigating ovarian cancer as a trans man
Tristan Bilash was diagnosed with advanced ovarian cancer in his 30s. His diagnosis & treatment were entwined with his gender dysphoria & his developing identity as a man of trans experience.
Robert Eads: Southern comfort
Trans man Robert Eads faced medical neglect before late-stage ovarian cancer treatment; his story inspired the documentary Southern Comfort.
Two times the cancer, one hell of a queer journey
Peter's experiences demonstrate the challenges of navigating a gendered cancer as a gay man & the importance of queer resilience.
Not quite that
This short Canadian documentary tells the story of Sarah & her decision to undergo elective surgery (a preventative double mastectomy) for a BRCA mutation that puts her at high risk for breast cancer.
Love notes from the chemo room
Poet & activist Andrea Gibson lived with late stage ovarian cancer.
Aunt Phyllis’ boots
A digital story (video) from the Cancer’s Margins project exploring lesbian & cancer histories.
Challenging erasure in metastatic cancer
Miranda is living with late stage cancer & raises awareness about cancer’s impact across diverse communities.
Long live my happy head
Illustrator and comic-maker Gordon documents his experience with an inoperable & incurable brain tumour.
From misdiagnosis to mission
After Paula's colorectal cancer diagnosis, she became a tireless advocate based on her lived experience as a young Black lesbian.
What it’s really like being queer with cancer
Nancy Kelley reflects on the deeply disorienting & isolating experience of being queer in the cancer care system, where identity & gender expression are often sidelined or erased.
KB & Cancer Queers
KB is a US-based non-binary queer activist, artist, musician, & writer. They were diagnosed with breast cancer in April 2022 at the age of 31.
Young, queer & caring for family
Angeline (they/she) is a queer teen living in Toronto with her mom & brother. Her mom is living with metastatic breast cancer.
My sexual self
A digital story (video) from the Cancer’s Margins project about the effects of ovarian cancer treatment on feeling sexual & the experience of seeking support.
Navigating breast cancer as a LQBTIQ couple
This podcast episode features Mel & Riki's story of breast cancer treatment, body image changes & fertility decisions.
Mary Morgan: Radical, fierce & bold
QC co-founder Mary describes her personal healing, new community, & a reaffirmation of living fully despite her cancer diagnosis.